Сочинение / Про подростков (на англ.) - страница 3

1. Попытка избежать неудачи, т. Е. Мысль, "я не могу". Там могут быть две причины:
ожидание ребенка оценка его действий (пытаясь избежать тех случаях, в которых она будет выглядеть как неудачник или получить за них низкий рейтинг);
предложению родителей, "мы любим только тех детей, которые хорошо учатся (затем ребенок выполняет только те задачи, которые он справится).
2. Попытка взять реванш. Это самый сложный Тип поведения. Месть подростка не обязательно имеет форму негодования, но желание мести-это почти всегда ответ причинил боль. В то же время, чтобы встретиться ребенок может как минуты после нанес психическую травму, так много лет после нее. Очевидно, месть в виде психических и физических атак: ребенок всеми способами вредит родителей или других преступников, игнорируя любые попытки примирения.
3. Демонстрация своей силы. Проявляется в вербальной возмущение ребенка, который входит в конфликт, или в тихом неповиновения. Ребенок обещает сделать то, что его попросили, и он продолжает делать свое дело. Такое поведение может привести родителей к приступы ярости, а ребенок добавляет масла в огонь, говоря: "ничего вы мне сказать не сможете сделать", или убегать из дома. Основной причиной этого является желание подростков, чтобы сбалансировать их правами, что и взрослые.
4. Привлекая к себе внимания. Часто проявляется в стремлении ребенка, чтобы отвлечь родителей от их дел, и провокация на ругань и наказания. Причина кроется в том, что подросток понимает, "плохих" детей, уделять больше внимания, и ради этого внимания он пускается во все тяжкие.
1. Attempt to avoid failure, i. e. thought, "I can’t". There can be two reasons: the expectation of the child’s evaluation of his actions (trying to avoid those cases in which it will look like a loser or gain for them a low rating); the suggestion of the parents, "we love only those children who learn well (then the child performs only those tasks which he will cope).
2. Attempt to take revenge. This is the most difficult type of behavior. Revenge of the teenager does not necessarily has the form of resentment, but the desire for revenge is almost always the answer caused the pain. At the same time to meet the child may like a minute after inflicted mental trauma, so many years after it. Apparent revenge in the form of mental and physical attacks: the child by all means does harm to parents or other offenders, ignoring any attempts at reconciliation.
3. The demonstration of his power. Manifests itself in verbal indignation of a child, which enters the conflict, or in a quiet disobedience. The child promises to do what he was asked, and he continues to do his business. This behavior can lead parents to bouts of rage, and the child adds oil to the fire by saying, "Nothing you tell me will not be able to do", or running away from home. The main reason for this is the desire of Teens to balance their rights with adults.
4. Drawing attention to yourself. Often manifests itself in the attempt of the child to distract the parents from their cases, and provocation on abuse and punishment. The reason lies in the fact that the teen understands - the "bad" children pay more attention, and for the sake of this attention he indulges in all serious.

 С одной стороны смартфоны полезные. С них можно выходить в интернет. И искать полезную информацию. Но с другой, подростки часами могут в них играть. Они даже не видят окружающего их мира.
On the one hand smartphones helpful. With them, you can go online. And look for useful information. But on the other hand, teenagers can spend hours playing them. They do not even see the world around them.

Young person in the transition from childhood to adolescence age. Modern science defines adolescence, depending on the country (region of residence), and the cultural and national characteristics, as well as the floor (from 12-14 to 15-17 years). In 2011 there are more than one billion adolescents [1].
In the 12-17 years adolescent enhanced secondary sexual characteristics. The girls appear menstruation: it is a sign that the ovaries have begun to develop and mature egg. For 12-15 years, boys begin to grow facial hair, body, armpits, having wet dreams - the first sign of puberty boys.
Usually this age is called transitional. At this time, teenagers in frequent friction with her parents, one of the teens looking for himself, his purpose in life, and enjoys philosophy, seeks to learn more about the opposite sex. And there are relations between adolescents and adolescent communication.
The authors of the UN report "Situation of Children in the World" (2011) report [1], that adolescence - an important stage of human development. After all, in the second decade of life clearly manifested poverty and inequality. Young people from poor backgrounds are less likely to receive an education. They are more often exposed to violence and abuse. They are attracted to the hard work and they are forced into early marriages. In the developing world, the risk of the girls to get married at the age of 18 are three times higher than in rich countries. Early marriages are accompanied by high maternal and infant mortality and poverty, and poverty. Most of today’s teens - 88% - live in developing countries. Many of them are facing enormous difficulties

Everybody was a teenager, that’s why everybody can say that it’s very difficult to be a teenager. Everyone has different problems, but teenage problems are special. One of the worst teenage problems is schooling. Sometimes you feel bad because of teachers’ or classmates’ attitude to you. You are tired of studying, that’s why you don’t have energy and time for doing other things. Also I’d like to say that a lot of teens like to look older, that’s why they obtain bad habits
like smoking, drinking, taking drugs, etc. But a teen can have bad habit because of problems in private life. Absence of the second half, loneliness, lack of pocket money or parents’ misunderstanding can inspire teen, that his best friend is a bottle or a cigarette. None should be angry because of teen’s feelings, because the boy or the girl often doesn’t control his or her feelings. Streets and street bands can make a teen ruder and crueler, that’s why parents
shouldn’t allow their children to have such interests. I know a lot of boys and girls, who think that cleaning their room is the most important problem of humanity. They think it’s boring and useless, because the room will become dirty 5 minutes later. I think, teens who have mania to comps are very boring and uninteresting. You can’t speak with them about something beside of «Sims» or «GTA».
It’s a real problem, to my mind. Every teenager has a favorite singer, writer or sportsman. But no one should become a fan, because we can kill our individuality and become clones. Sometimes a quarrel between teens can lead to serious law’s violations. It’s very dangerous! Also bad relationships between members of the family make the teen very emotional. The teen doesn’t get3 along with parents and relatives.

 1) Every parent at least but once asked his or her child to help around the house. Children often don’t want to do something, because they would rather  go for a walk or play computer games. 
2) But this is our home, we are a part of our house so we also should invest in its wellbeing and must work too! Cooking, shopping, washing, cleaning the flat are the things, teens should practise  while living in their family before they grow up and live on their own.
Our help is also a sign of respect and attention to our parents. Working together brings people more and more together. 
But why, so often, adults ask us to do something, although they can handle it themselves for a few minutes? Well, they ask us because they teach us to keep order in the house, and the ability to work. They do it because parents always do everything for the benifit of their child.
3) To conclude, I can confidently say that some help in doing the chores is a must for a teenager. Undoubtably, teenagers should help their nearest and dearest about the house. I think that those teens who help their parents to do something at home and have some domestic duties grow and become more responsible.

Ты имела ввиду обязанности?
Every teenager has rights and responsibility. And lets talk about it. 
So, if you are teenager you have to help elderly people. You have to not forget about your parents too. For mum it is no matter if she is tired she cooks food and clean house. I mean, every children and teenager has to learn it from mother. You should help you mother clean house, wash dishes and just help when your parents ask you to do it. You need to take care about you grandparents too. It is important to help them, because you can never help them if they die. So, just respect their opinion and love them the way they are.
Вот, если что не понятно - спрашивай.

The life of teenagers who live in Russia is wonderful because Russia is the best country in the world! All of them are encouraged to attend various ‘circles’ and to play different kinds of sports. In general, there is a tendency to do certain sports in the relevant season, such as skiing, ice hockey or ice skating in the winter and tennis or swimming in the summer. However, indoor ice rinks and tennis courts are also available for out-of-season use. Public ice rinks are not normally free for teenagers, so ice rinks are sometimes created in people’s yards. Camping used to be extremely popular in the days of the Soviet Union, but due to the rise in crime in the 1990s, the number of people camping has decreased. However, family or group camping trips is still enjoyed, but it is always best to have at least one adult along. Other types of entertainment include shopping and recreation centres and malls, cinemas, museums, theatres, event venues, parks and gardens. The level and number of facilities vary from city to city.

Какова жизнь в американской школе? Взгляд учащегося
Американские фильмы внушают нам, что у них лучшие школы. Ученикам не надо ходить в школьной форме; они сами выбирают предметы, которые будут учить; домашнего задания очень мало, а то и вообще нет. Но так ли это на самом деле? Чего у нас нет такого, что есть у них? Начнем с подготовки к школе и привычного нам 1 сентября.
☀Подготовка к школе
Американские ученики перед 1 сентября идут в школу и выбирают предметы, которые они будут учить в течение семестра. Директор дает ученику список предметов и ученик сам выбирает, какие он хочет учить. Говорит директору, который затем решает, будет ли ученик учить то, что он выбрал. Это зависит от количества учеников в конкретном классе. Например, в Alabama, Trussville, есть школа «Hewitt-Trussville High School». Там есть четыре обязательных предмета:
1. Английский.
2. Математика.
3. Наука (биология, зоология, химия, физика, океанология и другие). 4. История.
И еще три предмета можно выбрать самому из 50 (театр, вокал, литература, право и другие).
В наших школах у ученика нет выбора, он изучает те предметы, которые ему предложила школа. С одной стороны, американским ученикам могут надоесть предметы, но с другой, они сами выбирают, что им учить, а что нет.
☀Уровни
У американских старшеклассников есть уровни. Уровни – это сложность предмета. Например, в 9 классе можно изучать математику 1-го уровня, а в 10 классе – 2-го уровня. В 11 классе – 3-го уровня, а уже в 12 классе – высшая математика или тригонометрия. Это значит, что с каждым уровнем повышается сложность предмета. И так с каждым предметом. Например, можно взять физику 1-го уровня – просто для ознакомления с предметом. Но чтобы закончить школу, ученик должен пройти 4 уровня всех 4 обязательных предметов. У нас же образовательная программа построена таким образом, что сложность предмета повышается постепенно, с каждым годом.
☀Нет форме!
Что очень понравилось бы и мне лично, и всем нашим школьникам: американские школьники вообще не носят форму. Они могут ходить в чем захотят, главное, чтобы им было удобно. Конечно, все зависит от штата и школы, где ученик живет и учится. Но в большинстве штатов школьную форму носить не обязательно. В американских школах есть ограничения, но не такие, как у нас. Это у нас, если не пришел в школьной форме – сразу замечание в дневник. Правда, это тоже зависит от городов и школ. В одной школе разрешено ходить не в форме, а в другой форма обязательна.
☀Ученик и администрация
В Америке другие отношения ученик-учитель и ученик-директор, совершенно другие. Ученик может подойти к учителю и поговорить на любые темы: политика, шоу-бизнес, наука и т. Д. Учитель тоже может подойти и поговорить с учеником. Также можно зайти в кабинет к директору и поговорить с ним, если захочешь. У нас же если хочешь поговорить, то только на школьные темы. Это все зависит от того, какой учитель, но в большинстве школ так. В США же ученик и учитель – практически друзья. Даже на уроке ты можешь спросить учителя о чем угодно и он с удовольствием тебе ответит.
☀Весь день в школе
Американские школьники не хотят идти после занятий домой. В школе дети не только учатся: они играют в школьных театрах, в группах, занимаются музыкой, спортом. Они не ищут чем заняться после школы, потому что у них все есть в школе. У нас, к сожалению, маленькие школы и не всегда есть достаточно кружков или секций, не говоря уже о театре на несколько сотен человек. В США в школах все по-другому: от обучения до отношений. У них это нормально, когда ученик посреди урока достает бутерброд и начинает есть. Это нормально, когда ученику не нравится урок и он встает и уходит. В Америке больше свободы у ученика.

                                          Teenager
the teenager is a young and evolving organismal not so easy to live! Every day it suffers from hormonal surges, breakdowns and much more.
Teenagers often get angry, worried. And try to attract a lot of attention.
Fights and screams will be for parents commonplace.
it’s hard to survive.
For adolescents, bad decisions will become good, and good decisions bad
and here’s more about the appearance! You get pimples acne and points. And of course the teenager will freak out and be sad 
But fortunately teenagers are the same children who can walk and frolic in the street! Run with friends and spend time in school

I, like many others, suffer from harmful harmful privychek. K include nail biting, fumble earlobe manner slouch, fidget in his chair, scuff walking and others look ugly habit of constantly spitting and use words-parasites (eg "Well", "here", "mean"), talking loudly and gesticulating over, grab the other sleeve, collar jacket or button during a conversation, etc. The reason for this behavior is the lack of education, particularly in the absence of cultural skills. As a rule, one bad habit creates another, and they gradually develop into complexes. As a result, a person looks nesurazno. Vrednye habits - this constant carelessness, disorganization, inability to bring it started to end. Look to yourself, and you’ll find not one such habit is like a ritual privychku. Vrednaya complacency, self-consolation, samoobodreniya. However, it can acquire more sophisticated and harmful nature. For example, smoking, alcohol, drugs that directly harm the health and hinder others. "Habit - second nature." So it is possible to explain the position of smokers who can not get rid of my attachment to this senseless zanyatiyu. Ya struggling with their addictions (longer lie in the morning, throw things, be silent about something, tell yourself "I’ll do it tomorrow", etc. etc.). I do not want to become my habit second nature.

Harmful habitatsHarmful habitats! When people hear the combination "harmful habitats" they understand what it means, I am sure. Of course it is connected with smoking, drinking and even narcotism. So it is strange but nowadays these habitats exist in modern and rash to health way of life world. Everybody knows that they are dangerous for health and life but goes on smoking and drinking. In my opinion these two customs are not as harmful as narcotism. To put it mildly all of them have a lot of minuses and the consequences are similar. Just for example they cause the problems with health, relatives and beloved people, some financial problems, etc. Smoking, drinking and narcotisms cause strong dependence of them and person can not stop, what is the most terrible. I have heard one expression that nobody can stop being a smoking or drinking person or a marksman, they just have a rest before next period. Another bad circumstance is that the person who has this habitats can influence society and not in a good way. Let's imaging the person smokes near other people, he harms not just him but the people who breath in the smoke. The other situation, the drunken man went to the jolly road, the result is the man has crashed and so the cars with people have. The same consequences are with marksmen, they have a very strong desire to take in the drugs. He can do everything for it: to steel, to bit and even to kill. Usually the result is the death caused by different hard diseases. That is just fact and nobody can do anything helpful for such people, to help them can just themselves. But I talked about adults. The other situation is teenagers. They are prone to do something crazy and the harmful habitats are the best variant to show their society position, to demonstrate their lieder features. The teenagers' smoking and drinking are the international problem and a lot of counties try to fight with it. I think it must be the problem number one for every country. The government should understand that the children and teenagers are the future of the country, they are the guarantee of its successful development. And what will be with country if these children smoke, drink and take in the narcotics? This question should be asked to every adult. Of course the government tries to do something for changing the situation: fixes the fines, writes on the every box of cigarettes "Smoking kills", increases the prices on alcohol drinks, punishes the people who keeps and sells the drugs. But never the less people continue drinking, smoking, taking in narcotics. Probably it depends on person, on his orher wish and life conditions. Not seldom people get these harmful habitats because of strong stress, hard losts in their lives. In my opinion every person must think about his life and make right decisions. Drinking, smoking, narcotism are not the exit from difficult life situation, they are just the escape from reality, people, from themselves. I think the person must believe in his or her abilities, know and understand the consequences of harmful customs. That is why my motto is be yourself, do not forget about your abilities and everything will be excellent!